I solved my two body problem. The job I had at the SLAC/ PUI turned south rather quickly in 2018. There was so much drama that I don't want want to report about even now, 4 years later. Hugely traumatic stuff. That made it easy for me to say buh-bye to that institution I had dedicated myself to ad sacrificed a lot for and take a position at Hub's institution. If anyone still reads and wants details, just ask in the comments.
